Hi ,
your config looks fine , and the messages that you are seeing are normal , the first one the RDP connection is being established and the second one shows the connections is torn down because of a reset from the initiator .
you can use captures to see what exactly the client and the server are exchanging as follow :
access-list capdmz permit ip host [host in the dmz] host [ip address of the server on the dmz ]
access-list capdmz permit ip host [ip address of the server on the DMZ] host [host in the DMZ ]
cap capdmz access-list capdmz interface dmz
access-list capinside permit ip host [host in the DMZ] host [ip address of the server in the inside ]
access-list capinsdie permit ip host [ip address of the server in the inside] host [host in the dmz]
cap capinside access-list capinsdie interface inside
to show the captures :
show cap capdmz
show cap capinside
cheers!