use the "exist-map" instead of "the non-exist-map" on the "neighbor advertise-map" statement to achieve what you want. This feature is available starting with 12.0(15)ST or 12.2(8)T and up.
Hope this help,
Harold Ritter
Sr Technical Leader
CCIE 4168 (R&S, SP)
harold@cisco.com
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