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In theory, if your devices support scripting, it might do the job. If you're interested in that approach, post a question in the EEM scripting forum.
Philip asked if both sides used dynamic IPs. If not, a DMVPN setup supports spokes with dynamic IPs using NHRP. (Don't know whether you can use NHRP directly for this.)