You can restart the netflow using the negate command as in " no flow-export destination " followed by another command "flow-export destination" to restart the netflow immediately.
Jamil,On R3, run this command show ip route ospf and paste the output here. if you do not want to paste the output, look of the cost to networks via interface gi0/0 and gi1/0. the cost appears as highlighted belwo in the routing table:O 10.0.0.0 [11...
OSPF does not support unequal cost load-balancing.use ip ospf cost command to change interface cost and also, under OSPF congfigurations, configure maximum-paths 2 command.Hope it helps.