You would need both the following commands on your up-link port for successful Snooping/DAI/IPSG.
interface TenGigabitEthernet1/0/1 ip arp inspection trust ip dhcp snooping trust
For EIGRP you can use the built in feature;
router eigrp 50 distribute-list 30 in TenGigabitEthernet1/1/29 distribute-list 30 in TenGigabitEthernet2/1/29 network 10.203.16.0 0.0.0.255
You have done the correct thing by enabling 'auth control direction in'. This stops out going packets having to be authenticated and WoL will not work without it. I am wondering if the issue is further upstream? I noticed you are using VLAN 5 for you...