With FWSM/ASDM, once you hit on Apply, then the changes are applied straight away to the running configuration.
If you would like a similar experience to Check Point where you configure the change and apply/submit the changes later, then you would need to use CSM (Cisco Security Manager).
CSM is similar to CheckPoint Smart Center where it is a single management tool and it can manage multiple devices.
Here is more information on CSM for your reference:
http://www.cisco.com/en/US/products/ps6498/index.html