You can't modify the actions this inspection takes on SQL packets like you can with an ftp-map for FTP inspection.
All you can do is turn it on or off, but using the standard class-map/policy-map config you can turn it off just for one server or one client if that's all that's giving you trouble. Just define an access-list for the matching traffic, then remove the inspection out of the global service-policy and apply it with a class-map/policy-map pointing to that access-list.
