How are the 2 sites connected - via the external outside router you mentioned and/or another link? Depending on that connection, you can have each pair of pix's advertise a default route via rip. Then you can redistribute those routes into your IGP and set a metric so that the active pixs default is selected over the backup pix's (at the DR). Or if you are running rip, use an offset list to prefer one pair of pixs over the other.
Steve