there are a few ways to find average bytes per packet.
1. you can see avg bytes/packets on the FMC in overview>summery>discovery performance.
This displays a graph that represents the average number of bytes included in each packet analyzed by the discovery process.
2. from the CLI you can use the "show traffic" command.
from here you will get numbers for the number of packets and the number of bytes dividing these two numbers will give you the average bytes per packet.
3. you can also do traffic profiling that might help.
https://www.cisco.com/c/en/us/td/docs/security/firepower/620/configuration/guide/fpmc-config-guide-v62/traffic_profiling.html