1- You can do a
static (inside,outside) [inside subnet] [inside subnet] netmask 255.x.x.x 0 0
to make your inside visible to the outside
2- permit anything
access-list fullin permit ip any any
access-list fullin permit icmp any any
access-group fullin in interface inside
access-list fullout permit ip any any
access-list fullout permit icmp any any
access-group fullout in interface outside
3-sh conn
will show you the active connections
4-or you can capture the traffic
access-list capaclin permit ip any any
capture capin access-list capaclin interface inside
sh capture capin
(no capture capin)
access-list capaclout permit ip any any
capture capout access-list capaclout interface outside
sh capture capout
(no capture capout)