Let see how i can help here, since you mentioned tried many ways, give some example or follow below steps :
1. RV Look at the admin guide : ( Page 91 Site to Site VPN)
https://www.cisco.com/c/dam/en/us/td/docs/routers/csbr/RV160/Administration_Guide/b_RV160x_AG.pdf
2. Fortinet good video setup site to site VPN : ( what model of Fotinet ?)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sqwHyKVMhFU
Its very simple topology I want to encrypt lan to lan traffic between two sites each site has public IP and perform PAT.
Always we miss simple information, which can lead to fix days and months, so Make a Small diagram with IP address information.
Other Notes :
Make sure both the side config matches ( Try DH Lower level 5, rather going high level)
Post config information of both the end
Last - atleast one of the end you should see the Logs intiating the Tunnel.