Hi Wayne
As far as i know what you are trying to do is not possible. The problem is that the 2600 router is not checking whether or not the server is alive before using the NAT translation.
To do what you are trying to do requires a device that can send probes to the servers to establish their availability. Some of the Catalyst switches support SLB (Server Load Balancing) but i don't believe the 2600'S do.
Even though i appreciate you only want resiliency if you want to do this at the network level you would need something along the lines of a loadbalancer because it has the extra intelligence needed.
Jon