Good try, but no cigar.
I absolutely refuse to use the USB bluetooth adapter - you may not have noticed that it is USB-A, not USB-C which is the adapter on most Mac computers.
Sure, my iPhone can see the headphones, but I want to pair with my Mac. If anyone manages to do this please let me know HOW
MacOS Monterey, v12.5
[Edit 2022.08.13 Answer turned out to be: Reboot computer - also check out my unboxing video]
RedNectar aka Chris Welsh.
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