I would strongly suggest you upgrade your Communications Manager as I dont belive version 4.0 even supported SIP trunking, it was added in version 4.1 to my recollation. We are on version 8.6 now, with many/many/many changes to SIP since version 4.X.
Also, ideally you would want a CUBE (border element) and I would either use 28XX, or idelly 29XX router for that.
Chris