Hi Ghino,
Correct. If you need to peer with a neighbor belonging to a 4B ASN, you need to use the AS_TRANS (23456) as its remote AS.
4B ASN capability is negociated during the session establishment so the customer router will see none of its neighbors support it so it will use new optional transitive attributes to send the information in addition to the classic AS_PATH which will contain 23456.
- AS4_PATH
- AS4_AGGREGATOR
This link may help: http://www.cisco.com/en/US/partner/prod/collateral/iosswrel/ps6537/ps6554/ps6599/white_paper_C11_516823.html
From routing perspective on your side, it doesn't change anything as it's still a dual-homed customer regardless its AS number. The important thing is you see the same AS number from both peering.
HTH
Laurent.