You want to investigate Advanced Voice Buy Out (AVBO) or Local Voice Busy Out. AVBO sends what are essentially keep-alives to the remote router/gateway. If the keep-alives don't make it the local T1 port is busied out so the PBX will grab another trunk group. I've tested this where CallManager was acting as the Gatekeeper between multiple PBXs -
On remote router with T1 to PBX -
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call fallback monitor
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voice-port 1/0:0
busyout monitor probe 10.1.13.254 (Router subnet interface to CallManager subnet)
busyout action graceful
On router near CallManager servers:
rtr responder
Your config will differ b/c you just have the point to point link and no CCM, but this is the feature set you use.
Don