On the dial-peer, you can specify a DSCP value with 'ip qos dscp.' You can use that to map the special phones to a specific value and then use the downstream policy map to differentiate what WAN egress queues the different DSCPs should go.
I would do that on the outbound dial-peer. You can't do it on a per-phone or per-DN basis on CME, so it needs to be done on the H.323/SIP VoIP peer pointing to the other side. Probably what I would do is leave the special phones with media of EF, and I'd mark all of the non-special phones to do DSCP of AF41 and if the WAN doesn't hae provisioning for an AF41 queue, strip the DSCP of AF41 to 0 at the WAN egress.